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NOVEMBER 2007 NEWSLETTER

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Horse Problems Q&A
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Events This Month
(Where Natural Horsemanship Clinicians Will Be Appearing)
 
Equine Affaire - Massachusetts
November 8-11, 2007
Eastern States Exposition
West Springfield, Massachusetts
 
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Arizona Horse Festival
November 9-11, 2007
Empty Acres Equine Resort Buckeye, Arizona
 
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Your Horse Live - The British Equine Event
November 9-11, 2007
Stoneleigh-Park Exhibition and Conference Centre
Coventry, England
 
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Florida Equine Capital Expo
November 16-18, 2007
Hits Post Time Farm
Ocala, Florida
 
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To see where other Natural Horsemanship trainers and clinicians will be appearing nearest you throughout the year: CLICK HERE
 
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Horse Problems Solutions in General - If you haven't discovered already on my web site, check out my Question And Answer/Horse Problems/Training Tips section for solutions to common horse issues. The problems are listed in alphabetical order by problem, and I add to the list regularly. You can check them out here: Horse Training Tips and Solving Common Horse Problems - Q&A - If you have a horse problem that you do not see listed up there, feel free to email me and I will get back to you as soon as I can.
 
 
Training Success Letters of the Month - Read latest success stories with our Natural Horsemanship Training Program - Click here: Letters of the Month
 
 
Client/Customer Testimonials -
Read a few of the many testimonials we have received from around the world from those following our DVD training program: Customer Testimonials
 
 
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Greetings From
Sylvia Scott Whispering Way
 Natural Horsemanship Training
 
Dear Friends:
 
The 2007 year has sure flown by and already the holidays are rolling around the corner lightening fast. Probably like you, I'm already gathering up my list for what to give my loved ones for this year's holidays. I'm an early shopper and like to get things done without a time-pressure panic. This particular holiday season is quite special for our Scott family here this year, as our son, Trevor, a Sergeant in the U.S. Army 101st Airborne has managed leave time with us over Thanksgiving, and then Christmas, before he then is being deployed again, this time to Afghanistan, he's told, and this time for fifteen months. After enduring a year of him in Iraq last year, missing him terribly, worrying about him endlessly, we are sure going to be cherishing every holiday moment with him this year! Our oldest son, Justin, and youngest, daughter, Alisha, will all be with us as well for very special family holiday time. Nothing is more important to us than family!
 
I hope you enjoy your holidays as much as we plan to!
 
With the upcoming holidays in mind, we have put together an exciting Holiday Special which will not only save you money, but will greatly help you with your horse endeavors overall. We will be running this Holiday Special until December 31st. Our gift to you!

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  • Whispering Way 12-Step Total Training System DVDs (3 DVD set)
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Have a wonderful holiday season from our home to yours!
 
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We all can learn from each other!
 
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California Wild Fires Update - Like most of you, we've been watching the news reports daily on the horrendous wild fires in Southern California which have affected such a huge population, including many, many horse owners. As former Californians ourselves, and as horse farm owners, here now in Virginia, we wondered what we all could do to help other horse folks who have lost so much in the catastrophe which has been nicknamed "Hurricane Katrina with fire." I've listed here some resources you can check to make reaching out and helping easier:

For official updates on the wild fires, including Resources and Information for Recovery, Red Cross Information, click here: CAL FIRE
 
To learn more how we all can help, click here: California Volunteers - Southern California Fires: How You Can Help
 
 
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New Wild Horses 2008 Wall Calendar - For a Good Cause! - With photography by Rita and Charles Summers, this calendar celebrates the freedom of horses on the open range and reminds us of the need to preserve open range for horses. Calendar sales benefit the Black Hills Wild Horse Sanctuary in South Dakota, where more than 100,000 acres are home to unadoptable wild mustangs. This calendar makes a great Christmas gift too! For more information: CLICK HERE

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The United States Cavalry School has the best horse history vacation in the West!!! Ride with us at our headquarters, situated in Washington State's majestic Methow Valley (Northern Cascade Mtn Range), at the location of your choice, or at our school at the amazing Battle of the Little Bighorn Reenactment/Custer's Last Stand encampment at Crow Agency, Montana. Our mission is to preserve the culture of the United States horse cavalry through education in cavalry history, horsemanship, tactics, Native American cultures, and Army life on the American frontier. Learn how to ride military style, experience what it would be like to participate in a thundering cavalry charge, fire weapons of the period in a Cavalry skirmish line, how pack animals were used, and relaxing around the campfire after your day in the Cavalry, the US Cavalry School has a place for you. Open to women and men over 14 yrs old, as well as all levels of riding skill. Experience history first hand by riding across the Little Bighorn River and the ground/Battlefield Custer and his men covered the last hours of their lives. CLICK HERE FOR MORE INFORMATION

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Horse Problem Questions From You & Their Solutions From Sylvia Scott
 
Question: Horse suddenly going ballistic in cross ties:
For starters, Sylvia, I LOVE your web site and the information you provide. I rate it a 10+!!

A little background on my 15-year-old quarter horse: She stands very well for the farrier. She's been practically 95% of the time in cross ties and is fine with it. Only recently did "something" happen. I was in the feed room at the time so I don't really know what caused her to spook, but she went ballistic hitting her head on the ceiling, knocking down whitewash. She broke one of the cross ties! I peeked my head around the corner when I heard her start to slow down and simply talked to her and used my body language (standing still like there was nothing wrong). So, she seemed to get over that and I had her back in cross ties for the last couple weeks with nothing going wrong.
 
Well, I had health issues and wasn't out to see her for 10 days, which for me is long. I had a farrier appointment with her tonight (here in Wisconsin it was a cool night with a light rain). The farrier completed one hoof and was going to her back hoof when she went ballistic for no apparent reason, hit her head again on the ceiling and gave herself a couple wounds, one of which drew a little blood about an inch from her eye! Again, when she stopped, I used a soothing voice and kept my body language apparent to her as though nothing happened. The farrier and I talked for several minutes on what had happened and he then continued on with the next hoof and suddenly again she went ballistic. This time she somehow pulled her head out of the halter, turned around to walk away from us, found an empty stall where she noticed grain, and started eating. We went to the stall, the farrier adjusted the halter tighter, I put it on her, lead her back and she acted like nothing was wrong! He then said I should simply hold her as "some horses simply don't like cross ties." She was fine - head hanging down, chewing, not a problem in the world. She was fine after that! When he was done, out of my own curiosity, I tried putting pressure on the lead rope to have her drop her head and she responded just fine!! 
 
Well, I don't know what to do in the future. I certainly don't want her to go ballistic again in the cross ties and cause injury to herself. My farrier thought maybe I should simply not put her in cross ties again, but to me it seems like that's only a band-aid to a problem. He also thought maybe the weather had something to do with it as it was a cooler evening than usual. Oh yes, and before the farrier arrived, I had longed her and she appeared just fine! Help - please advise me on what to do next. THANKS A MILLION!

R. B. - Seymour, Wisconsin                            

Sylvia's Answer: Hi R. I'm probably going to answer this in a way that you might not want to hear, but I don't believe in using cross ties. Don't own them at my own place, never would, and I would never use them myself, ever. I think they are extremely dangerous horse gymnastics apparatuses that horses shouldn't be using. It's actually in the category of force: Forcing a horse's head to stay in one place, potentially triggering claustrophobia. It is so much better to just teach a horse to tie properly (with one lead). And I would also advise: always hold a horse (single line lead) for the farrier, don't tie there. Always. This keeps the horse calmest and the farrier safest, with you in full control there via you holding that lead. I know this isn't probably what you want to hear, but is what I think you need to hear. I myself would never ever use cross ties. It's not fair to the horse; it's too dangerously confining (as you're seeing the dangerous results for yourself there, which is always just a matter of time with any horse potentially!) and is just not something I myself would ever do or advise my clients to do. Just my two cents worth!
 
If you feel you must do it, I have a link on my web site about it here:
But know: I myself do not believe in cross tying horses. And all horses should be held (by yourself/another person) for the farrier or vet.
 
Feedback later from R. B. (above): Sylvia, you are a life saver!!! Until I moved my horse back here in February, I really hadn't used cross ties at all. However, that stable owner only had cross ties available in his barn and didn't allow any other method. So, my horse eventually did get used to them. Also, I was told that it was "good" for them to be able to adjust to different things. I have often wondered myself why I was doing it as it looked terribly uncomfortable to my horse. So, I am more than pleased to know I can change this for the better. I was thinking it was a matter of a training issue on my part that this occurred. Yes, she has stood like an angel for vet and farrier visits with me holding her, as she did last night after the cross tie incidents. I am so happy I've come across your web site and get your monthly newsletters [and have now just bought your training videos], as they are the best thing on the market in my book!! Thank you again!
 
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Question - Horse acting too disrespectful to human, in pasture: Hi Sylvia. I have your Whispering Way™ 12-Step Total Training System DVD set and your Round Pen Leadership DVD and have been using them quite effectively with my 2 1/2-year-old KMSH. I also have your natural horsemanship halter/12 foot lead rope.
 
We've been getting a few drops of rain and it has begun to cool down some here, if you call 83 degrees cool! Well, guess it is after the heat index has been 103 degrees here.
 
My question is this: Most of the time when it is cooler and I go into the pasture, my horse comes to me, allows me to pet on him and basically love on him, hugging his neck, rubbing him just everywhere. Today, I heard him neigh and haul butt towards the neighbor's fence, 2 Arabs live there. I went out to see what the commotion was and he came right up to me, like he usually does. But then he tried to nibble me and I put my hands up and pushed the air and said BACK!! He then acted like he was going to come back up and let me rub his forehead but did a half rear!! SCARY to me!!! I decided after I put my hands up to get him to BACK OFF, and I would get the heck out of the pasture. Well, he followed really closely with his front feet sort of prancing and his head down, then made a quick turn left and kicked up his heels. VERY SCARY! He was pretty close to me. He then ran to the fresh hay I had just put out near his water trough and stopped and began eating the hay. WHEW! I walked quite quickly out of the pasture!!
 
I understand that he is feeling better now because of the "cooler" weather. I haven't  been able to work him because of the heat, only for about 10 to 15 minutes 1 or 2 times a week. I do groundwork with him though instead of riding. I understand that he is just a baby, but how can I prevent him from doing stuff like that out in pasture? Do I just need to stay out of the pasture? He really scares me at times like that because he is so much bigger than my 14.3 hands paso/app that I used to have. Thanks for any information!
 
N. R. - Chiefland, Florida
 
Sylvia's Answer: Hi N. This is actually a very good question! What you need to do there is always enter the pasture with a 12-foot rope. You can actually use your natural horsemanship halter with 12' lead there and that will do just fine for this. This rope will give you a tool to communicate to the horse, even out in pasture, even when the horse is at liberty like that. There are a couple of ways you can use this tool out in pasture (I take one with me out in pasture/into my herd all the time, especially on a rowdy-horse day which often accompanies first cooler weather periods).
 
Here's how to use it: spin the rope to establish your boundaries there. You can spin it vertically (make the spin circle up and down) and let it feed out of your hand longer, spinning toward the horse, smacking the ground with it as it spins if needed, and this prevents the horse from potentially barging over you if you sense that is about to happen. Let the spinning rope do your talking!
 
The other thing you can use the rope for there is: like when he was following you in there, behind you, but your inner alarm was screaming, "that's too close and too 'whoo-hooey' for my comfort level!" you can, as you walk there, spin the rope up and over your head, spinning it horizontally this time, even as you're walking away, letting it spin around at a long length, like a propeller on a helicopter, but over your head. No horse will breech that propeller barrier and he'll back off, while still following you at a respectful distance.
 
Do both/either of those as needed. And don't enter the pasture without that rope tool from now on. It will greatly empower you inside, you'll see, and will keep you safer.
 
If you see him running up to you with head high and coming in way too fast, spin the rope vertically (smacking the ground as it spins if needed) while he's still a bit away from you, to remind him to "slow down and come in more quietly and respectfully, thank you!" He'll respect it, you'll see. And I think your fear there is not something to be worried about, but to be listened to. It's a good, self-preservation instinct alarm blaring to you that you shouldn't shut off manually. It'll shut off all by itself when it's no longer needed.
 
Know this: knowing your horse, what you're saying there, I myself would not ever enter that pasture without such a rope and often it's just an extra lead rope I have that's not attached to one of my halters, or, it might be one of my halter/12' leads I grabbed before heading into pasture. Try it next time you go out there and you'll quickly see how much safe control it gives you there.
 
I've taught my own herd to come when I call, no matter where I'm standing on my property. And they do come running when they hear me. But I do NOT allow them to run when they are getting closer to me. From afar, that gallop toward me is fine; but when they close in closer to me, they MUST start walking. (Picture: kids coming in from recess and entering a school building, where the "walk now" rule is always strictly enforced.) Those are my "herd rules," with me as lead mare. I let the rope spin vertically, if needed, to remind them when they need that if they're coming in too fast. As they get closer to me, they must WALK, and quietly, tentatively even. They're not allowed to come in too close to me either as a group unless I've invited one of them to come in. If you use your spinning rope properly there, you'll quickly see your horse listen to it, and he'll throw a mental switch to quieter and more submissive, and more respectful demeanor. It's you letting them know what they actually let each other know at all times: you're establishing your boundaries. And they fully understand that; it's speaking their language.
 
So, use the spinning rope vertically to remind the horse to slow down as he comes into you if you need to (it's really just a safe extension of your arm, think of it like that). I'm not going to ever try to use my arm to slow down or stop a horse; I'm going to let the spinning rope do that job for me and all horses WILL respect that. No horse in his right mind will run or walk into a rope that is spinning, they just don't usually.
 
But as you're leading them away at liberty and they are following, like you described there, if they follow too closely or too rambunctiously, now spin the rope horizontally (think: even with the horizon) over your head like a helicopter propeller, letting the spinning around rope feed out of your hand longer and longer, as long as is needed. It works! The horse will respectfully back away there, but still follow you, but more respectfully now.
 
And incidentally, this also affords another handy use of this rope: when that horse half-reared or even fully reared at you there at liberty in the pasture, guess what you, the lead mare need to do there instantly?! You need to: Spin or toss the end of the lead rope at him (whichever is safest to do at the moment) as assertively as needed, and SEND HIM AWAY. Drive him off. Away. Go away, horsey, Shoo! Get out of here! That wasn't acceptable respectful-to-the-lead-mare behavior in my "space" and they therefore must leave. That's precisely what a real lead mare in a herd would do if another horse approached her like that. She would drive him away. Assertively. Horses instantly understand that language (their language, remember!) to mean: they just did the very wrong thing there and they need to exit, think about it, and then approach their leader more respectfully. Nothing else is acceptable.
 
Keep remembering, even here, that horses follow a prey, herd animal instinct that says, "He/or she who moves the other's feet is higher up on the pecking order and therefore the leader to be respected." The rope there then is the tool to effectively and safely remind the at liberty horse of these rules if or when he breaks them. Always. I'm 100% consistent with these rules with my horses at all times. They understand consistency; they do not understand inconsistency. They perceive inconsistency as: weakness/meekness. And what is weakness/meekness to them?: Someone lower than them in pecking order, which they instantly do not respect. There are no grey areas allowed. Black & white zone only. White zone is when they are following your "herd rules" and no extra pressure is applied to them. Black zone is when they break the rules and pressure is applied. And the pressure applied is: move their feet (away). That's how they themselves establish the pecking order and how they figure out who is the leader to be respected. So as lead mare, you need to be consistent there with those rules so there is no confusion on their part.
 
The only thing you were missing there was: the rope tool. Take it with you out there from now on and it'll afford you the opportunity to school him when he's out of line like that. And any too-rambunctious attitude too close to my body space like he's doing there at liberty, is unacceptable behavior I'm going to correct instantly like I'm showing you here. And he'll understand that correction and next time he'll come back in far, far more respectfully. You'll know he's really finally getting it when you see his head drop lower (hopefully lower than your head) as he comes in closer to you, more slowly this time as he gets in closer to you there. That's when he's finally got it.
 
[Note: if you're ever suddenly stuck in such a situation, without a rope tool in your hands, kicking dirt at the horse will sometimes work to back them off as well. Or reach down (if it's safe enough) and pick up a clod of dirt or gravel and toss it at them, preferably at their feet and this usually will move them off and away, out of your space.]
 
So give all that a try and you are going to quickly see that it's just the rope tool missing there, and if you bring that along from now on, you're going to have no problems there, I'm sure.
 
Do more round penning of this horse, too, following my DVD instructions for that (once it has cooled off enough), and that will help too, but I understand wanting to hold off on that, with 100 degree temperatures there for a while! If you don't have a round pen, use a closed off area or paddock for that exercise (even if you manually have to block off/construct an area for this purpose). Accomplishing the Round Pen exercise will greatly turn him more respectful all around and this will be less of an issue.
 
Again, good question! And I'm glad you stopped to ask it, because now you'll know what to do to be safer and getting your horse to calm down when at liberty out in pasture.

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Question - Wearing sunglasses when training and working with spoiled horses: Dear Sylvia: Thank you for providing wonderful and accessible advice on your web site. I consider your sharing of knowledge a generous gift to me.

I have two questions.

I noticed in some of your photos that you wear sunglasses. I have avoided wearing sunglasses with new or untrained horses so that they can see my eyes. I would have a rough time if my horse's eyes were not visible while training so I thought my horse would dislike not seeing my whole face. Does wearing sunglasses matter to the horse?

I have worked with several untrained, slightly disrespectful and never touched horses in the past to establish basic beginning training. These horses easily took to the round penning and halter training techniques. I took on a neighbor's horse that is a 6-year-old gelding and has never been round penned, halter trained or ridden. I knew this horse would be a handful, but knew also I could return the horse at any time that it was no longer fun. I took on this horse for my education and it is really testing my skills.

The gelding is extremely disrespectful and the neighbor's wife and daughter did not trust him when they were in the pasture. I have worked with the horse for 4 days and he is moving forward and changing direction fairly well but is not joining up with me as I would like.

He will stop and turn his head towards me (not body) but that is the extent of his joining. He shows only a few, weak signs of submission - no ear or eye focused on me, no head lowering, lots of rear end views. I end each session on a really positive note. When he looks at me with attention and submission, I leave the round pen. This is my first time to work with a horse that is massively spoiled and I would welcome any advice that would let me know that applying consistent technique will transform this nasty monster of a "backyard" horse into a calm, willing and submissive partner. Thanks again for all that you do.

E. H. - Farmersville, Texas 

Sylvia's Answer: Hi E. Thanks for writing. First: the sunglasses question. I have found, from years of experience, and training hundreds & hundreds of horses, that it really doesn't matter if you (or I) wear sunglasses. What I've found is, even when you are wearing them, they feel the focus of your eyes. Horses have an uncanny ability to feel focus, even far beyond our own sensory abilities there. I've experimented with this greatly, and I know this to be true. So I've found that wearing sunglasses doesn't affect training negatively whatsoever in my program.

I personally actually have to wear sunglasses when outdoors, don't have a choice. Not only do I have really, really sensitive, light blue eyes, but my eyes are actually allergic to the sun/bright light, I was informed by an eye surgeon many years ago. If my eyes get exposed to sunlight/ultraviolet light, they actually get an allergic reaction. So I have to wear sunglasses at all times when stepping outdoors. I don't have an option not to. I literally can't even open my eyes outdoors in bright light without sunglasses, they're that sensitive. Has been that way since I was born.

But wearing sunglasses honestly has never hindered my training of horses in my natural horsemanship program whatsoever. (Incidentally, I wear rubber safety sunglasses and one time they actually saved my eye when I got kicked in the face by a horse years ago!) Horses are instantly responsive, even when I'm wearing sunglasses and I know they feel my focus, what body part I am focusing on, on them; I've seen it time and again. But it's important also to learn how to focus on a particular body part so they feel it, with the right accompanying body language. I actually go over this in greater detail in my Round Pen Leadership DVD.

And that's what I wanted to bring up next. I can see from here what you know and what you don't know, and what would help you greatly there to speed you along this learning curve. I think you should think about getting my Training Videos Package in particular, which contains my Round Pen Leadership DVD & my Whispering Way™ 12-Step Total Training System DVD set. And you'll quickly see what you're missing there. My program is very user-friendly, I explain the why's of everything very clearly, and everything is broken down into easy-to-learn step-by-step fashion. And if you ever have any questions as you go along applying what you learn in my DVDs, I'm always an email away for backup support, if you ever need that. That's what my Remote Coaching program is all about, which you can read more about here: CLICK HERE

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I really think this route would help you a lot, and greatly speed along your natural horsemanship training learning curve. I've even remote coached, going this route, quite a large number of people out there, who have since gone on to become very successful NH trainers out there, that I'm so proud of. Think about this, because I know it will really help you a lot there, and I'm happy to back you up all you need as you go along!

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Question - Weaning a foal when on small acreage: Hi Sylvia. I have a question. I read your associate's answer regarding weaning time. Here is my set-up. I have a large dry lot that is divided into two. My 21-year-old thoroughbred and 36-year-old horse share one side. Then my draft mama and her 5-month-old baby share the other side.
 
The baby is sold and will be leaving Nov 10th. I was wondering if I should wean him prior to him leaving or do the cold turkey approach of separating him from her the day the trailer arrives to pick him up (he is moving 9 hours from here). I was going to put him in with my 36-year-old mare, but I'm afraid he may hurt her since he is very playful. Plus she is on a special feed program since she has no teeth. So feeding the two in the same lot would be tough. I thought about putting him in with my 21-year-old, but he is very aggressive, bucks a lot and acts like a stud (although he is a gelding) and I'm afraid he may hurt the baby.
 
So again, thinking cold turkey method. Just don't want to stress him out with the weaning and moving at the same time. Although even if I did separate him from mama now, he could still see her so the only difference is, he can't suckle. I take her out to ride her about an hour a day, where he is alone. He seems fine with it most of the time, other than a couple whinnies and some pacing, but nothing bad.
 
He is eating grain and hay on his own and drinks water as well. Mama is starting to walk off when he tries to nurse. So what do you think? Thanks.
 
J. W. - Blair, Nebraska
 
Sylvia's Answer: Hi J. It doesn't sound like your set up there would work for weaning anyhow, because ideally, you would want to put them out of sight & smell of each other during the weaning process, and that couldn't happen at your place. Plus, you would want the foal to have a buddy he gets along with during the weaning process, and you ideally don't have that either.
 
I'm actually going to forward your question to our resident breeding/foaling expert, Bob Claymier, who is featured in our Whispering Way™ Foundation Training Series: Complete Guide to Horse Breeding, Foaling and Foal Training, Featuring Bob Claymier - to get his feedback on this as well.
 
Bob Claymier's Response:
Hi J. I'll weigh in here a bit, but Sylvia's answers agree with mine. Your current set up is not ideal for proper weaning, as both mare and foal should be out of sight and smell from one another, or you just will be asking for an accident to happen. One or the other - and usually the baby - will try to get through or over the fence and injure itself in the process if they are too close.
 
I prefer to keep the baby in its normal surroundings and with buddies, while moving the mare to another location. If you don't have a friend or someone nearby that you could move her to, then I would probably recommend the cold turkey approach and just wean at the time of the sale. The new owners should do all of the things that you would ordinarily do on your end, such as monitoring the foal's health for signs of stress. He should continue to eat and drink normally and not develop a fever from being upset. I would have them put him in a safe place for at least a couple of days and hopefully with a new buddy.
 
You would take the same care on your end with the mare while also monitoring her udder to ensure she does not develop mastitis. Again, though, this is not ideal and I would first try to move your mare away so that you could keep track of the foal during weaning and well before it departs.
 
Sylvia was kind enough to mention my new DVD set which explains this process in much greater detail than we described here. Good luck and let us know if we can be of further assistance. Cheers, Bob
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Question - Horse bucking on trail rides: Hi Sylvia. I have been riding about 4 years so I am a very inexperienced beginner rider. I have owned my quarter horse mare for 2 1/2 years now. She was purchased as a "beginner" horse. She was 6 at the time. I don't have the privilege of riding very often.
 
My problem began about 1 year ago. I had ridden her quite a bit last year. I rode her on a LONG trail ride (didn't know at the time it was going to be like that), up a mountain trail, on a rocky trail. I rode with gaited horses and they really pushed me to "get up my horse" because they didn't want to wait on me. Her feet were very sore after the ride and she started balking on me. I realize it was my fault, unintentional, but still my fault.
 
After that, she became the uncatchable horse. She had always been "spooky" of plastic bags, etc. She has gotten worse - spooky of a lot of things. Well, I haven't been able to ride lately, but rode (mistake) for the first time this weekend on a trail. She did really well to begin with. We rode for about 45 minutes and she was better than she had ever been (up & down some terrible hills), but she was spooking at a few things - her spook under saddle is a snort and really watching things.
 
Her trot is awful so I decided to be brave and pick her up into a lope and follow my kids. She loped about 4 or 5 "lopes" and then started bucking. She bucked me off - HARD. She stopped after a few steps and stood there. I got back on. Rode on off because I figured I did something wrong.
 
She did fine until we started up a terrible hill. My daughter basically loped up the hill on her horse. Well, I just let mine head on up the hill and about half way up, she bucked again and off I came. My husband got on her up another hill and if she is asked to lope, she bucks. I ended up having to lead her back to camp, due in part to my hurting rear end and her so wired and nervous I was scared to ride her.
 
I was told not only should I have ridden her more often, but I was feeding her too high a feed (we were recommended to feed her 8 lbs a day of a 14% feed to help her get more weight - not sure why because she is an easy keeper). She is in a large pasture with 3 other horses, so she isn't kept up at all. Of course, the nutritionist that recommended using the feed (company representative) said that protein had nothing to do with how a horse behaved, wouldn't give it excess energy and make it "wired." I don't know. I just know I am terrified to try to ride her again. I don't know when she may do this again. Can you suggest anything that might help? Thank you.
 
P. B. - Internet
 
Sylvia's Answer: Hi P. Thanks for writing. First: I disagree with whomever is telling you that the feed couldn't be a cause of wiredness. In my experience, it can be. Especially feeding a sensitive horse over 10% protein is renowned in training circles as a source of over-wiredness in some horses. The best experiment to do is: remove the horse completely off the supplement feed for several weeks and see if you see a difference; most people do see a dramatic change very quickly. It really is a common problem out there -- more than you might think! Too many people over-grain their horses period, and the result is often: a spooky, over-sensitive demeanor in the horse. Most normal, healthy horses actually need little to no grain at all if they have free access to good grass/hay, and that's the truth. For now, try taking your horse off of grain and let the horse have free pasture grass access and I think you are going to see some of the problem licked there. But not all. Some of this is a training issue, but also the above needs to be addressed as well, I think.
 
What I think is also going on there is, your horse still has some serious training foundation holes, but you can plug them up yourself -- safely on the ground first. And I think the best route you could go right now, to keep you safest and the horse progressing more positively there, is to think about getting my Whispering Way™ 12-Step Total Training System DVD set, because there you will be shown how to rebuild your horse's foundation yourself, more safely and more thoroughly, to create a safer horse all around. Not only will it show you how to desensitize your horse so it is no longer spooky, but it will also show you how to build a "safety zone" into your horse's foundation, to call upon in any emergency, including checking "bucking thoughts" at the door before it happens, not after. I think it would help you a lot there, multi-directions. And if you ever have any questions as you go along applying what you learn in my program, I'm always an email away for backup support. That's what my Remote Coaching Program is all about!
 
You can read here a few of the many testimonials we have received from others following my program, world wide: TESTIMONIALS
 
The package I would recommend for you in particular is my Whispering Way™ Training Essentials Package, which contains everything you need to apply my 12-Step program, including:
*Whispering Way 12-Step Total Training System DVDs (3 DVD set)

*Whispering Way Natural Horsemanship Halter/12' Lead

*Whispering Way Training Wand

*Handy Quick Reference Pocket Card
Incidentally, in the process of running your horse through my 12-step program, it is also greatly going to build your own inner confidence simultaneously, you'll see!
 
One last link I wanted to direct you to on my web site is about making sure your saddle/tack fits well so the horse is not experiencing any pain (pain is often the source of bucking behavior, but so also is lack of proper training -- a still-spooky horse is not properly trained yet):
What would I do if called in to work with you and your horse? Exactly what I said above -- I would plug your horse into my 12-Step program to flush out the foundation holes, and fix them safely on the ground first. But you can do this yourself, too! That's what my DVD set is designed for -- and it is even very user-friendly for beginners. My program focuses 100% on safety at all times.
 
Hope this helps and let me know if I can be of any further help to you there!
 
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Question - Horse chases dogs: Hi Sylvia, I wondered how I can stop my horses from chasing the dogs. The dogs come out to the paddocks and in the pasture with us when we do chores. My two-year-old mustang filly is the worst and she puts her head down and runs after them with one front leg leading and ready to strike them with her hoof. I yell at her and run at her if she does it, and if I am close enough, she will veer away. But if I am not close or aware, she will charge after them. The dogs run for their lives, but I am afraid one time she will get them in a situation where they are trapped or surprised and get hurt, or worse. Thanks for your help.
 
M. K. - Pocatello, Idaho
 
Sylvia's Answer: Hi M. It's not the horse that is the main problem there, but: the dog. I don't feel most dogs should be allowed inside "horse areas," especially where horses are at liberty (not haltered) and especially if you have a horse like that who gets very territorial about them and goes after them. You need to keep your dog protected from that and it's good for dogs to learn barn rule boundaries.
 
I have taught my own golden retriever, Callie, that she must remain outside of our horse fenced areas at all times, and she knows her boundaries well there! That includes: our barn (which serves as a run-in and is inside a fenced area), our pastures, our paddocks, our round pen and our arena. All other areas at our farm, Callie is allowed to wander around freely when I'm outdoors with her. So, as I enter a pasture, paddock or round pen or arena, Callie sits and waits for me outside the individual fence lines, no matter how far I go into those areas. Those are her rules and she obeys them well.
 
You need to teach your dog the basic commands like "stay" so you have that in their foundation to apply here. Enforce the rules enough and the dog will quickly learn exactly where those boundaries are -- where they are allowed and where they are not -- and they will obey. It's very easy to teach actually and I think it is important for dog safety.
 
That said, you can and should still work on your horse to be less aggressive toward dogs (all dogs) in general. Let me direct you to a link on my web site that shows an exercise you can do to teach horses not to be aggressive toward one another, but in this lesson, you can use a dog there (with your horse being the one haltered in this lesson):
If I had a horse who was overly aggressive toward dogs, I would plug him into that lesson and work on the issue over time, because I don't want a horse who is aggressive toward anything. However, I would still teach my dog that she/he is not allowed inside horse areas and I would work on that as well when needed.
 
NOTE: I just wanted to mention here that Scot Hansen has a new video out that deals with horses & dogs on the trail (especially aggressive dogs you might meet up with when out trail riding). His video is called: Dealing With Dogs On the Trail.
 
Here's what it's about: This video will show you what you and your horse need to do to deal with approaching dogs while riding on the trail. You will learn: How to begin with ground exercises; The importance of switching eyes; How to safely introduce your horse to a dog; How to teach your horse to face up and deal with a dog; How to turn the tables on the dog and drive him away. 

Check it out! CLICK HERE

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Question - Horse aggressive toward other horses when hay is put out: Hi. I hope you can help me. I have a 13-year-old Welsh D gelding, that I bought recently. He was very bolshy when I got him, but after lots of natural horsemanship training techniques he is much easier to handle, and will follow me round the school, etc. He still tries to be in charge every now and then, and is quite a cheeky chap.
 
The main issue I have at the moment is his interaction with other horses in the field when I give them hay each morning. He gets very aggressive and chases the other horses away with his ears right down. I worry that he is going to hurt the other horses. I don't really know what his background is and wonder if he has had to fight for food in the past.
 
Please could you let me know if this is normal behaviour as he is the first horse I have owned, and I don't really know what to expect. Please could you also let me know if there is anything I can do to stop him being so aggressive.
 
I don't really want to keep him on his own as I don't think it is fair on the horse. Thanks in advance for your help
 
P. S. - United Kingdom
 
Sylvia's Answer: Hi P. Thanks for writing. This is common behavior in horses that have been "starved down" at some time in their past. It's a "concentration camp" mentality that is left over from days when there (literally!) wasn't enough food to go around. And it then became a "survival of the fittest" situation. He learned then to fight for food, or not survive. It's a sad result of someone in this horse's past just not feeding him enough nor letting him have 24/7 access to grass/hay like most horses are designed by nature to live.
 
Let me direct you to a link on my web site that talks about what to do with this kind of horse now:
So, as you read there in that link, especially for putting out hay, put out the hay in several piles, but very far apart from each other. This way he cannot possibly dominate all the food resources; he'll pick a pile and the other horses will clear off to the other piles and peace will prevail. Make sure you put the hay piles far enough away from each other that he won't be tempted to dart back and forth between them to try to "own them all."
 
One more link on my web site I wanted to direct you to -- it's an exercise you can do to start working on your horse's attitude about this, in general, in a very structured lesson format -- in this exercise, it will be your horse that is the one haltered in the lesson:
Hope this helps and good luck to you there!

Sylvia Scott
Whispering Way™ Natural Horsemanship Training

Whispering Way Farm
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