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QUESTION: We just
got a 10-year-old paint mare. We have no other horses yet, but
plan to get another real soon. During the day we keep her in
the pasture and she is very content. At night we stall her because
right now there is no other shelter in the pasture. The problem
we're having is that when we leave her for the evening, she
begins to try to climb out and escape. She came from a place
where she spent all of her time in the pasture with other horses.
So we understand that she might be lonely. She has only done
this when she thinks we're leaving her. Do you have any suggestions
about what to do with her? We don't want her to hurt herself
or do this when someone is in the stall with her. Please
help. Thanks.
REPLY: Hi. Thanks
for writing. I'm going to shoot real straight here, but
please hear it from the heart and with compassion. Horses
simply are not designed by nature to be alone. That is every
horse's greatest fear in life, and is how nature designed them
to be as herd prey animals. In the wild, a horse
(food for predators) alone is the one first picked off by
predators (even more so at night than in the day, because
most predators that hunt/kill horses for meat are night
stalkers and all horses know this down to their very DNA
level) so, horses fear being alone more than any other fear
they may have, even more so at night. Try to really grasp
that. They are also designed, as again herd animals, to
be ten times more social than we humans are, if you can
imagine that! So...if you can grasp that, as well, then
you'll understand what I'm going to say next.
Horses kept alone, without other
horses to live with, to socialize with 24/7, to "pair bond"
with, can become quite neurotic and pretty quickly too. They will
not usually exit that "panic attack" mode until things
are remedied in the direction they need to be. Here's what you need
to do, and here's where the straight shooting gets even straighter:
- Do not stall this horse for
now. Let her live outdoors 24/7, day and night. At least she
won't feel as trapped and in need of panicking as much, though
she'll still be remaining in the anxiety spot until things are
remedied there in the department they actually need to be, which
I'll go into in a second here. Horses are actually designed
physically and mentally to live outdoors, open spaces, in all
weather, year round. Horses are prey animals, far different
from us, and nature designed them to live in wide open spaces
and to be on the move pretty nonstop. In the wild, horses move,
within a 24 hour period, up to 20 miles and is how their bodies
are designed to function physiologically. We, on the other hand
as predators, are more designed to live in "caves"
and to draw into those caves at night to keep warm and protected.
Horses are the opposite. They prefer wide open spaces so that
they can flee when needed if a predator arrives. Horses don't
see stalls as we do. They usually see them as entrapment and
taking away their basic need to have "flight" available
to them at all times, for their own survival instincts. Stalls
are "manmade" and just not necessary for the majority
of healthy horses. 99% of horses will grow the coats they need
to live outdoors in whatever weather environment they are in,
hot or cold, rain or shine, snow or sleet; is how nature designed
them, if you do not interfere there by blanketing them
(in winter). Blanketing 99% of horses only interferes with nature's
"grand plan" for horses. If you blanket them, it tends
to throw off their natural thermostat that grows the amount
of fur they need for whatever weather condition their body is
exposed to. Their fur growth adjusts immensely fast in winter
if you let them have full access to food/hay and fresh water
at all times throughout the cold months and if you don't put
a blanket on them (which actually slows down/stops their coat
growth, hence potentially making them colder, not warmer). There
are exceptions to this rule as there are some breeds of horses
that do not grow coats sufficiently in winter, some of which
are ones where man interfered with the breeding process to try
to produce such thin-coated horses (often for the racetrack).
But the majority of all domestic horses will indeed grow as
thick a coat as they need for winter/how they live/where they
live, and will shed as much as they need to for summer. But
in winter especially, they must have 24/7 access to food/hay/roughage
to keep their coats growing properly and their bodies kept warm.
The eating process alone raises their body temperature. This
is how horses keep themselves warm and trigger their bodies
to grow more needed fur fast -- they eat/graze. Nonstop. Even
more so in winter. And their body thermostats keep them warm
just fine. My own horses live outdoors 24/7, year round and
do just fine even in our snowy Virginia winters. They downright
look like wooly mammoths by the dead of winter. And they do
just fine. Never show signs of feeling cold. So...let her go
live outdoors for now, even at night & you're not doing
her a disservice going this route, you're doing the right thing.
Nothing wrong with keeping a run in shelter if she'd like that,
though many horses choose, even in pouring rain or heavy snow,
to not opt for the run-in shelter. So don't be surprised if
she makes that choice! Horses are outdoor creatures. And they're
perfectly comfortable with that. Make sure, though, that you
keep full access to hay (if there's no grass) free and open
to her at all times, and fresh/not iced-over water, and then
tackle what the real problem there is, which is:
- Think about getting another
companion for her, preferably another horse, immediately,
not putting that off, so she will have another herd-mate to
live with 24/7, and she'll settle down fast, you'll see. If
you don't do this, your horse is only going to grow increasingly
neurotic, and unfortunately, may develop permanent neurotic
habits to try to cope with this forced isolation and stalling.
This is at the root of horses that "crib" (chew on
wood) or that "weave" (shift back & forth repetitively,
moving their heads in rhythm with that weaving), which are both
behaviors that absolutely do not occur in the wild -- it's a
"Man created" neurosis in horses. Both those habits
release endorphins in their brains as the isolated/or cooped-up
horse tries to cope with their anxiety in the only way they've
figured out how: cribbing, weaving or some dig holes in a stall
with incessant pawing, and the horse then gets addicted to those
endorphin releases (in the case of cribbing or weaving), and,
unfortunately, those habits then become pretty impossible to
break. Even long after you've remedied the situation that caused
them in the first place -- because now they are addicted to
the endorphin release and cannot stop. It becomes a "drug
of choice" they no longer have any control over. So,
much better to prevent the cause up front in the first place,
before they happen, because you won't have much options to fix
them after they develop. So...you need to take this problem
seriously, but from the equine's point of view so you can do
the right thing there for her. If you can't afford another horse
right now, you can check rescue centers around you to adopt
one perhaps. Or, some folks go the "mini" horse route
for the companion for their horse. Or a goat or sheep even,
last resort, though not the most ideal for our domestic horses,
but is better than nothing. Racehorse folks have long known
the absolute imperative emotional need for a horse to have a
"herd" companion with them 24/7 and that's why sometimes
goats are used to stall right with a prize racehorse, inside
their stall (race horses that they might not be able to afford
risking pasturing/injury too close to an important race, because
some racehorses come with hefty price tags in the hundred thousands,
lots of money invested in them!). In fact....that's where the
saying "got your goat!" comes from in our vocabulary.
In the olden days of racing, opponents would sneak into a race
horse's stall and steal the companion goat, knowing that would
upset the horse and leave him so shaken up by race time
that he would (hopefully, to the thief) lose the race! Because
they knew: horses cannot handle living alone.
It's real important when moving
in the direction of horse endeavors to work to not "anthropomorphize,"
which means to attribute human form or personality to things not
human. Horses are herd prey animals. We humans are predators.
These are two completely different, almost opposite creatures
of nature. We overlap in some respects socially, but for the most
part, we are quite different and think and function differently
and our basic needs can be quite different. Horses, as herd
animals, have to have companionship at all times, or they suffer
with serious emotional problems. While a stall in the dark of night
might feel like the "safest" place to you, the human predator,
it's not necessarily to the horse. Horses feel safer in wide open
spaces, especially in the dark, and near a companion. By the way:
they can see perfectly well in the dark, far, far better than we
can.
All that said...because this horse
needed to have advocacy here first...now I'll address the stall
behavior you're seeing there (though you understand the why's
better now). If up the road (shortly, hopefully) after you get another
horse and get this present horse past this anxiety period, and they
seem well settled in, and you want to start introducing the stall
to her again (because there are times when a horse needs to be stalled:
during some illnesses, layup after an injury, etc., and she indeed
needs to learn this, accept it), I would do this to get her past
that stall climbing/kicking behavior:
- Put her companion in the
stall next to her so she can see him/her. If she starts up with
the stall climbing, etc. do this next:
- Get a radio and set it somewhere
outside but near the horse's stall (where she can't reach it)
and set the radio on "static"/between stations. When
the horse starts banging/climbing, going nuts, instantly turn
the radio-set-to-static up REAL LOUD. As loud as you can go.
And also bang on the outside of the stall yourself at the same
time, somewhere off to the side there, and do it real loud with
something handy (piece 'a wood, shovel, etc.). We're not trying
to be aggressive here, we're just being annoyingly loud.
The horse is going to stop banging/climbing/being noisy herself
suddenly when she hears this ruckus/static, to focus on
it for a second (they hate the sound of static on radios usually).
The SECOND she quits, goes silent as she suddenly stops to listen,
release the pressure (noise) instantly. Stop banging, turn/off
radio. Get your "release timing" as quick as you can
get there so that when she stops, the noise also stops instantly
so she'll "connect up the dots there." All horses
learn from the RELEASE of pressure what it is you want, not
the pressure itself. So get your release timing quick there.
If the horse starts up kicking again, repeat. Quickly the horse
realizes: when she's quiet there, the "icky noise"
stops & when she's banging/climbing, the noise is suddenly
there again, and slowly she'll be reconditioned to not do that.
Will have to repeat this a number of times probably and if you
can remain consistent with that as much as possible, she'll
stop doing it altogether. Sometimes the static alone is all
you need (no banging on your part; the less you have to do to
get the behavior you want, the better, so...at first try just
the static and build up to adding the banging only if needed).
Keep that first lesson fairly short and when you see she's consistently
quiet there, end the lesson on that positive and release
her back into the pasture and do this lesson again another day.
Each lesson, you're going to increase the time slowly that she
remains in the stall, remaining consistent there with your pressure
(your static/noise matching her noise/acting up) and release
of pressure (your silence when she's silent) and you're
always going to reward her at the end of each lesson with the
release back into pasture each time, after she's been quiet
for a bit in the stall. Soon you'll be building her up to longer
and longer stretches where she can remain quiet there.
- But please, only go
this route after you have tackled all of the above as
spelled out. Because...it's really not fair to "discipline"
a horse who is screaming as loudly as she can (but not being
heard) that she cannot handle being alone, and nature didn't
intend her to be. Know that. With all your heart. And hear this
not with negative judgment, but only with compassionate focus
on education. I know you want the best for your horse, I can
truly see that, and it is why you stopped to ask this question. So...fix
the real problem there, get her a companion to live with
her as soon as possible, and you'll see the problem go away,
I'm sure.
Thanks again for writing and good
luck to you there! :-)
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