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QUESTION: I've
go got a horse that we have been working with for a while and making good
progress but the horse lacks confidence when taken out of his comfort zone. He has been
badly beaten in the past. When he goes out, he sometimes looks like he can't
cope and will plant himself and do anything to get back to the comfortable
place: home. He just falls apart and looks like the equivalent to a mental
breakdown. It really worries him. We have done lots of desensitizing and
confidence building, but any ideas are gratefully received!!! He's fine in the
school now by the way; it's just when we go out.
REPLY: I couldn't tell if he was melting down when going out just being ground led, or
when riding. Either way, I would want to return to deeper bonding at those
melt-down times to let him know you: 1) accept his feelings, understand, and 2)
you are there for him to turn to for support/nurturance, instead of feeling the
need to act-out/flight response. Here are bonding suggestions (if you haven't already seen this
link):
If it's happening when you are riding and the horse
is really melting down, do not hesitate to climb off and do your bonding
techniques on the ground. There is absolutely nothing wrong with dismounting (at
any time!!) when training and when a horse reaches irrational mode so highly
that he no longer can concentrate on anything. You may need to alternate riding
with dismounting, bonding, ground work, until he starts to associate that "it's
all the same everywhere, not to worry." If the problem is really bad, because
he's been so abused, start doing some creative pleasureful things (other than
riding) away from his comfort zone place. Those can include doing away from his
comfort zone: supplement feeding him there, grooming him there, or a combination
of both. Also bringing along a been-there-done-that calmer horse alongside him
as a "security blanket" might help as well, on ground and in saddle, to get him
over his irrational fears. But truly, the bonding techniques are what I would
want to focus on the most there, to help him past this emotional obstacle.
Finger in the mouth and dropping the head being the most important, because that
will produce instant relaxation. Try some or all of the above and it should
help!
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