Dear Sylvia:
Many, many thanks for taking the time to
work with us and our two Tennessee Walking
Horses in a private two-day intensive training
program at your beautiful Whispering Way Farm. Over
the years, I have attended a number of natural
horsemanship clinics, read lots of NH books, and
seen numerous NH videos...but none of those compare
to having watched you work with horses and communicate
with them at their level of understanding!
Each well-known NH trainer I've had the
pleasure to meet and observe in the past has provided
a "piece" of the training puzzle for me,
and I've been able to pick up elements of techniques
that have helped me with my horses over time. However,
it wasn't until I watched you work one-on-one with
our horses that the "light bulb came on"
and I could see without a doubt how important (and,
sadly, lacking in the work we've done previously
with our horses) the "fundamentals" of
good communication and support are in successful,
long-term horse training.
It was interesting to see how you are able
to differentiate (by observing the horse's
facial and body expressions and reactions) between
a horse that's being resistant or one that's simply
confused and in need of extra help. How you acted
upon that understanding seemed to make a huge difference
in how each horse responded to training!
And one MAJOR difference I noted between
your horse training methods and those of every other
well-known NH trainer is how you use your *entire*
body to communicate with the horse - WOW! I'd
watched a program on TV some time ago that featured
an autistic woman who had worked with the cattle
industry to make the handling of beef cattle easier
on the cattle based on her observation that cattle
reacted to external stimuli much as someone with
autism might react. I then started looking at our
horses to see if they, too, reacted in similar ways.
Sure enough I could see the horses (also prey animals,
as are cattle) responding to sounds, light, movements,
posture and more, in ways that resembled responses
I'd seen from autistic children and adults I've
known over the years.
Then during our private 2-day intensive
training session with you I saw you training horses
by using your body in ways that would enhance communication
with a "reactionary" individual -- never
staring at the horse's face when encouraging bonding;
using big sweeping movements of your arm -- with
a soft, leading posture -- to ask for a turn
when driving the horse on a lead rope; looking
away from the horse and extending an arm with soft,
bent fingers to encourage following; becoming stiffer
through your body and/or pointing at a specific
area of the horse's body in order to have the horse
move that part of its body away; making yourself
"big" (extending arms, and adding lots
of movement) to get the horse to stay out of your
space; avoiding vocalizations -- other than
soothing a confused or fearful horse, etc. These
actions really made the concept of "pressure
and release" come into focus. How many people
are out there training their horses today who really
don't understand the great depth of what constitutes
pressure to a horse and what doesn't, beyond the
well-worn mantra of give-and-take with a rope or
rein, and turning one's body away from the horse
for a right action.
Your two-day private intensive training
assistance (which included fixing "holes"
in foundation fundamentals such as respectful leading,
de-spooking, yielding to pressure, and so much more)
demonstrated many wonderful concepts and techniques
we could use as a part of the continued training
and partnership with our horses. There were so many
valuable tips and suggestions given during those
two days that it will take some time to mentally
process all of the information, but the information
*does* come back during each practice session at
home. And more than that -- MUCH more -- your hands-on
training and excellent explanations/commentary about
each action/reaction helped us to be better observers
of horses and their behaviors, taking training beyond
the obvious external reactions and physical communication
toward a meeting of minds. We'll be working with
our horses to help them think and THEN react in
a safe, calm way, thus allowing us to become better
"leaders" of our horses -- and I suspect
that's exactly what our horses want most (beyond
food and shelter) from us as their human herd!
Thanks so much!
- K.C. Shore
- Seaford, Delaware
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